Helping Kids with Homework

Homework can be a battleground, but here are some tips for getting on schedule and even making it (gasp!) fun—for you and them.

Get into the groove:

‘All the research says the single best way to improve your child’s homework performance—and bring more peace to your home—is to insist on a daily schedule or routine,’ says Ann Dolin, author of Homework Made Simple. She suggests at least a 30-minute break between getting home and getting stuck into homework. This is non-screen time, where the kids can have a snack and wind down.

Get some goals:

In collaboration with your child, set out two or three goals. What are their stumbling blocks? Maybe homework time is running into bedtime, so agree on an earlier start time. Review and adjust these goals each term—letting your child take ownership.

Resist re-offending:

If your child is a repeat homework-forgetting offender, lay down some consequences. This usually improves their memory. But, if your child is naturally disorganised, work with them. Pinpoint what makes them forget and find solutions, like a special ‘homework folder’ or a checklist posted by the computer.

Be creative:

Does your child resist reading? Work on ways to make it fun—maybe set up a reading tent under your dining room table. With the help of your child, create a fun homework space—get them to choose the theme, and make it a place they want to hang out.

Know when your child needs help:

Don’t try to become your child’s study buddy or re-teach information—you may have a different method of doing long division than their teacher, for example, causing more confusion. Instead, ask the teacher to spend a little extra time explaining it to your child again.

Know when they don’t need help:

Answer their questions with more questions—it’s easier to give the answer, but more effective if they can come up with the answer themselves. A project can be a fun way to bond, but make sure the child is taking the lead.

Source: www.parenting.com

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